“I have no idea what fatherhood is – because I don’t know what dads actually do..."

Published: April 04, 2025

“I have no idea what fatherhood is – because I don’t know what dads actually do..."

I have recently come across this article in the Telegraph – “I have no idea what fatherhood is – because I don’t know what dads actually do. If having a present father is so crucial to raising well-rounded children, why is there so little stigma when they abandon their family?”  written by Suzanne Moore. In this, among other predictable things, she explores the role of fathers in modern society, questioning their significance and societal expectations.  

Maybe not surprising because of the author’s own experiences and bias, this text misses the point because it does two things – firstly it assumes that

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Orphan Crushing Machine

Published: March 18, 2025

Orphan Crushing Machine

In the age of viral news and feel-good stories, it's not uncommon to come across tales of individual heroism or charitable acts that aim to solve immediate problems. Yet, these stories often gloss over the larger, systemic issues at play. Enter the metaphor of the "Orphan-Crushing Machine," a sharp satire that encapsulates this phenomenon.  See the  original tweet.  

Interesting little problem no ? Lots of people seem to have thought so - the /r/OrphanCrushingMachine subreddit, started also in 2020 gained over 95,000 members in three years and the concept went viral for a few years.

Crucially however, this concept can be applied

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The Mental Health Benefits of Playing Computer Games

Published: February 12, 2025

The Mental Health Benefits of Playing Computer Games

In recent years, computer games have become a popular pastime for people of all ages. While they are often associated with entertainment, they also offer a range of benefits for mental health. Anyone who knows me is aware that I am passionate about the ways in which pop culture such as comics, and gaming, can help with mental health challenges. We do need to acknowledge that excessive gaming does have negative outcomes. We also need to validate the fact that gaming culture can have connotations of bullying and misogyny, although one might argue not any higher than other walks of

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Can You Be an LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Counsellor Without a Commitment to Social Justice?

Published: January 17, 2025

Can You Be an LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Counsellor Without a Commitment to Social Justice?

In the realm of LGBTQIA+ affirmative counselling, and one of Pink Therapy's core requirements, commitment to social justice is often seen as a cornerstone of effective practice. But can a counsellor truly be affirming without this commitment?

LGBTQIA+ affirmative counselling is a therapeutic approach that validates and supports the identities and experiences of LGBTQIA+ individuals. It aims to create a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their identities, relationships, and challenges without fear of discrimination or bias.  Social justice in counselling involves recognizing and challenging systemic inequalities that impact marginalized communities. For LGBTQIA+ clients, this means addressing issues like

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Theory of Mind and Why Does It Matter...

Published: November 21, 2024

Theory of Mind and Why Does It Matter...

Theory of Mind (ToM) is a fascinating psychological concept that refers to our ability to understand and interpret the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions of others. This cognitive skill is crucial for navigating social interactions and forming meaningful relationships.  At its core, Theory of Mind allows us to infer what others are thinking or feeling, even when they do not express it directly. This includes understanding that others may have beliefs, desires, and intentions that differ from our own. For example, when a child learns that another person can hold a false belief, like thinking a cereal box contains cereal 

when

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